The goal for me was never truly “retirement.”
It was never about achieving Financial Independence and disappearing forever, like the purpose of life is to escape it. My goal was always bigger than that—and more personal. The goal was to have the ability to work without the expectation of receiving money. To be able to show up and give my energy, my service, my mind, my heart—because I chose to, not because I had to. Because when money is the requirement, it’s not always “freedom”… it’s often coercion dressed up as responsibility. It’s the pressure of bills, the pressure of systems, the pressure of needing permission to breathe. And I never wanted my life—or my purpose—to be chained to that.
My goal has always been to teach people how to attain financial freedom in a way that separates your work from your survival. Financial freedom isn’t about never doing anything again. It’s about building a life where you can work on what matters without the constant fear of what happens if you stop. It’s about having your bills covered—your foundations handled—so your time becomes yours again. So your decisions aren’t forced. So you can serve the world with real intention instead of desperation. So you can move through life with choice instead of obligation. That’s the real plan: to be financially free so you can choose how to spend your time—without guilt, without fear, without your entire identity being defined by whether you clocked in.
Because the truth is, some days you don’t want to walk into a building. Some days you don’t want to “perform.” Some days you just want to stack your money, stay in your lane, and keep building quietly. Some days you want to spend time with your family and take in moments you will never get back. And the older you get, the more you realize: those moments are the real currency. You don’t get them back. You can’t refinance time. You can’t invest your way into yesterday. Life doesn’t pause while you’re paying bills. The years don’t slow down because you’re “busy.” And that’s what I want people to understand—this is bigger than money.
When I first got into the FIRE movement, it wasn’t because I wanted to brag about early retirement. It was because I wanted peace. I wanted time. I wanted to spend more of my life with my wife and my kids. That was the original mission—simple, pure, and real. I wanted to be present. I wanted the freedom to choose my family over everything else. But life changes. Life hits you. And now my wife is no longer here. And when something like that happens, it rewires you. It strips away all the fake goals. It strips away the noise. It forces you to face what matters and what never did.
So what I have now—what I’m running on—is purpose.
The passion to deliver. The passion to teach. The need to help people become financially free so they can pursue their passions while they still have time to live them. Not later. Not “one day.” Not after the kids grow up. Not after the job calms down. Not after the next raise. Now. Because life is not guaranteed. And if you keep trading all your years for money, you might wake up with a full bank account and an empty life.
That’s also why my goal right now is to become a CFP.
Not because I’m chasing the money that comes with it. Not because I want letters next to my name to impress people. I want the CFP because I want people to understand the depth of what I do and the responsibility I take with this work. I want people to know that I’m not here to sell them something. I’m here to guide them. And I want the certification aligned with that—because it represents real standards, real structure, real accountability. But even deeper than that, I want people to understand something about me: this isn’t a phase for me. This isn’t a trend. This isn’t a hustle.
These skills have been embedded in me since I was born.
This is what I was brought onto this planet to do. And I don’t say that lightly. I’m not here to be a salesman. I never wanted to be an insurance salesman. I never wanted to be the person who makes money by pushing products, by playing on fear, by convincing people they’re behind so I can be the hero. That was never my lane. I am a coach—an actual advisor—someone who advises you from the center of your lifetime goals, not just your money goals.
Because money without purpose is just accumulation.
The real work is asking the questions people avoid:
What do you really want from this money?
What do you want to achieve in this life?
What are you really doing here?
What is your reason for being on this planet?
What does a “rich life” mean to you beyond the numbers?
We were not meant to come to this planet just to live, pay bills, and die.
But that’s the trap most people are living in. Wake up, work, stress, repeat. Hustle, survive, cope, sleep. And they call it normal because everyone else is doing it too. Meanwhile life is passing them by. Work is taking their life and using it, and they don’t even realize what it stole until years are gone. Don’t let that happen to you. Don’t let your job own your best years. Don’t let your fear of money keep you from living. Don’t let the system train you to accept a life that’s smaller than what you were meant to experience.
Some people want to travel—and they should.
Some people want to build a business, create art, coach, lead, or mentor. Some people want to spend more time with their kids while they’re still kids. Some people want to take care of their body and their health and not live in constant exhaustion. Some people want to fall in love for real—not this version of love where you’re just two tired people surviving side by side. Not the love where you work, come home, recover, go to sleep, then do it again. I’m talking about true love—the kind where you have the time to deepen your connection, the space to be present, the capacity to see the world together, to experience life together, to build trust and intimacy in a way that nobody else can replace. That kind of love requires time. It requires energy. It requires a life that isn’t constantly drained.
And that’s what financial freedom is for.
Not to stop living—but to finally live.
So I just wanted to get out here and speak to that. To let it out. To say it clearly: the goal isn’t to retire from work. The goal is to retire from coercion. The goal is to build a life where your money serves your time. Where your work becomes choice. Where your purpose isn’t interrupted by survival. Where you can give your gifts to the world freely—because you’re finally free enough to do it.
That’s the mission. That’s the work. And that’s why I’m here.